Twenty-Six
Hello Lovelies,
Another year of life. Another year of growth. As I sit here reflecting on 25, my heart is overwhelmed with gratitude for all God has done, all He has revealed, and the ways He’s shaped me. The past year wasn’t without challenges, but through it all, I’ve seen the goodness of God woven into every moment—even the hard ones.
Year 25 taught me lessons I’ll carry forever. It was a year of pruning and refining, a year where God revealed areas in my heart that needed His healing touch. I became more aware of my tendencies, my struggles, and the ways I sometimes fall short of reflecting Christ’s love. But in that awareness, I found hope—the kind of hope that says, "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus" (Philippians 1:6).
One of the biggest lessons I learned this past year was the importance of preparation. Whether in business, relationships, or my walk with Christ, I’ve come to see how vital it is to allow God to prepare me for what He has in store. For so long, I thought preparation meant striving and hustling to make things happen on my own. But this year, God showed me that true preparation begins in stillness—in trusting Him to align my heart with His purpose and timing.
In year 25, I also took a hard look at the habits, patterns, and attitudes that no longer serve the person I’m becoming. I acknowledged my need to communicate more respectfully, to face confrontation with grace and confidence, and to embrace growth even when it’s uncomfortable. I worked on becoming a better steward of my time, finances, and body. And though I’m still a work in progress, I can see God’s hand shaping me into someone who reflects His glory more each day.
Expectations for Year 26: A Year of Love
As I step into year 26, my heart feels expectant. Expectant of God’s promises, His faithfulness, and His ability to do "immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine" (Ephesians 3:20). This year, I’m praying for and believing in love. Not just any kind of love, but the kind that mirrors God’s covenant love—faithful, patient, and rooted in truth.
I’ve spent much of year 25 focusing on becoming the person I want to be in a relationship. I’ve taken the time to address my own heart, to heal where I’ve been hurt, and to let go of fears that have held me back. I know I’m not "there" yet—none of us ever fully are—but I also know that God’s grace fills the gaps where I’m weak. I’ve come to understand that love, whether in dating or in marriage, is not about finding someone to complete you but about partnering with someone to glorify God together. That’s the kind of love I’m praying for and preparing for this year.
What I’m Believing For
Deeper Connection with God: Year 26 is a year where I want to know God more intimately. I’ve seen His kindness throughout my journey, but I know there’s so much more to discover. I’m committing to staying in His Word, to seeking Him daily, and to trusting His plans over my own.
Faith-Filled Relationships: Not just romantic relationships but friendships, mentorships, and connections that reflect God’s love. I want to surround myself with people who sharpen me (Proverbs 27:17), encourage me, and hold me accountable.
Stepping Into Boldness: Whether it’s in business, ministry, or personal life, I’m ready to walk boldly in the purpose God has placed on my life. I want to be obedient, even when it’s uncomfortable, and trust that He is working all things together for my good (Romans 8:28).
Love in God’s Timing: This year, I’m opening my heart to dating again. Not because I’m in a rush to find "the one," but because I’m ready to step into this season with intentionality and purpose. I’m trusting God to lead me to someone who loves Him more than anything and who will walk with me in building a Christ-centered relationship.
Closing Thoughts
As I turn 26, I’m reminded of how far God has brought me. The girl I was at 16, 21, or even 25 could never have imagined the person I’m becoming today. But that’s the beauty of walking with God—He doesn’t just see who you are; He sees who He’s creating you to be.
So here’s to 26: A year of love, growth, and bold faith. A year where I’ll continue to lean into His plans, trust His timing, and walk confidently in His goodness. Thank You, Lord, for all You’ve done and all You’re about to do. Here I am, ready and willing to follow wherever You lead.
Let’s do this, 26.
With Love,
Jadesha M. Hair
